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Parent's Manifesto
Diagnosis

Three to Five Years

Communication/language use

  • May be non-verbal or slow to talk, combine words or use sentences.
  • Ignores verbal instructions and is non compliant with (doesn't listen to) verbal restrictions e.g. No
  • Is not responsive to subtle facial expressions/body language
  • Can repeat back instructions but seems unable to follow them
  • Uses behaviour to communicate
  • Frustrated with inability to speak and/or understand speech

Socialisation/play

  • Does nor pay attention to what is happening around him/her
  • Frequently seems very anxious
  • Not afraid of strangers (will go with anyone)
  • Too trusting
  • Easily frustrated or annoyed by the actions of other children
  • Difficulty turn taking or waiting
  • Stands too close to people "in your face"
  • Poor understanding of body language, non-verbal cues
  • Overly affectionate with people he does not know
  • Charming, friendly then over-intrusive
  • Highly affectionate, "touchy-feely"
  • Prefers playing with younger children or the company of adults to same age peer group.
  • Requires constant supervision

Behaviour

  • Destructive, may be wilful
  • Frequent lengthy temper tantrums
  • Demands immediate gratification - wants things now
  • Low tolerance for frustration
  • Self-stimulating behaviour (rocking, head banging)
  • Accident prone
  • Oppositional (you say yes he says no)
  • Exhibits extremes in behaviour (very loving to very hateful: very co-operative to very oppositional)
  • Reacts badly and/or resists change in activity, routine, environment
  • Disregards consequences for misbehaviour
  • Behaviour deteriorates when upset or frustrated
  • Fearless unable to comprehend danger
  • Does not seem to learn from experience
  • Inconsistently responds to a reward or consequences

Attention, activity and impulsivity

  • Unable to wait
  • Unable to play quietly
  • Unable to sit still; fidgets, wiggles, squirms
  • Does not sustain attention to an activity for long
  • Easily distracted by other stimulus in the environment (light, colour, noise, movement, equipment, people etc.)
  • Easily over-stimulated
  • Does better in non-stimulating environments
  • Requires direct adult supervision due to safety concerns
  • Frequent injuries due to activity level
  • May be under active

Physical motor skills

This section applies to 5 year olds only

  • Poorly co-ordinated and clumsy (gross motor control problems)
  • Fine motor control problems
  • Difficulty throwing, catching, kicking a ball
  • Needs some physical help with dressing
  • Described as awkward
  • Eyes and hands do not work together
  • Fatigues easily with physical exertion

Cognition/memory

  • Developmental delay
  • Difficulty in understanding anything abstract
  • Seems unable to make connections between actions and consequences
  • Problems with concept formation i.e. Understanding things like "soon", "when", "if, "before", "after", "tomorrow"
  • Problems with sequencing counting, following directions, alphabet skills
  • Learns a skill then quickly forgets it
  • Has trouble making simple choices
  • Does not grasp simple instructions
  • Language lacks ideas and information: may use lots of words but says very little
  • Seems unable to transfer a skill learned in one area to another area i.e. "don't hit" at home must be relearned at school as "don't hit" at school
  • Poor problem solving skills - will persist with an approach that clearly does not work: does not use trial and error methods
  • Chronically frustrated
  • Is easily confused by things

© 01/02/03 MP / MBH

E-mail: moiraplant@fas-info.org.uk

June 02, 2003